If someone doesn’t declare a major part of their life….how do we believe it’s real or that they believe it’s really a true part of them? If they are firm in a certain spirituality or religion…or have intentions or relations towards/with another person…and there is no form of declaration or admission…..what does that say? Do we believe it? Do they believe it? I believe in declarations…putting it out there, at least to those around us…in our circle, otherwise it just seems guarded….superficial…..like they are hiding something, and I am afraid that I would question more……or maybe my standards are too high……but, I am who I am and it works for me.