I love it when I am getting to know someone and , over time, they really start to open up and begin to share intimate or key parts of their life with you as the friendship grows. Their thoughts, wisdoms and interests start to become yours and yours become theirs. Then there are those who are more guarded and more difficult to get to know. Eventually, one day, something escapes in a conversation and you think ‘I would have thought that would have come up in conversation by now’…..or ‘I would have thought I’d know more by now’. It’s fascinating seeing personalities and behaviors…and how people differ…and how we shouldn’t compare them or be angry because one trusted you more with their deeper thoughts and details of their life. Everyone dances to a different beat…….dance.