When you think of the interactions you have or have had with others….loved ones, etc. …Remember the great ones….the positive, loving encounters, were meant to be thought of in that way, personal. The other ones that we have had….we were meant to forget, resolve….they had nothing to do with us. Unfortunately, the other person needed to find their own resolve in some matter, known only to them. I, sometimes, do this to myself, briefly….or see a friend struggling for years over what was out of their control…had nothing to do with them…..find your little place of peace and move forward….Live.