Capability takes a lot of understanding from others. We all have our own set of capabilities in all the areas of our lives….it affects our choices. There are people who are only cabable of learning so much in school or a job, but they are doing the very best THEY can. Sometimes the performance means disappointment from someone who expected more or better. There are parents who just weren’t capable of loving their children like they deserved….I have known adults who continue to be deeply saddened, throughout their lives, by the lack of capability of one or both parents…..when it was the best they could do….all they were capable of, all the while, should have been assumed to be better, stronger and a more loving bond. I pray for the foregiveness, the resolve, the love, and the compassion for all……love yourself.